Last year, I received a Save
The Date card for a huge destination wedding of a family member that was to
take place this month. But then COVID-19 hit our country hard and large gatherings
were prohibited. The bride and groom have decided to postpone their wedding
until 2021. This young couple are going to wait a whole year to tie the knot! I
feel so bad for them, but what else could they do?
The question got me thinking
about weddings during the pandemic. People have to go on with their lives. Or is
everyone postponing their nuptials? THAT question had me going to Google to do
some research.
It seems that lots of couples
have put off their weddings. But others have decided to elope… just the two of
them. Others are settling for what are called “mini-monies,” which are
miniature ceremonies that include guests of only 10 family members and friends.
The important thing to these people is the “getting hitched” part and they’re
not too hung up on the size of the guest list. Even though they must settle for
a minimalist approach now, they can always plan a bigger celebration later.
Do you know a couple who was
planning a wedding? Did they cancel? Or did they decide to go for it?
This month, I’m offering my
book, THE WEDDING PLANNER’S SON, for just 99¢ for Kindle readers.
I think in today's time too much money has been spent on having a wedding. Use the money you spend on an expensive wedding to help you as you become a new couple.
ReplyDeleteI agree. My wedding cost under $1,500. (Pls don't ask me how many years ago that was. LOL)
DeleteI couldn't agree with this more, Margaret.
DeleteI've seen couples on TV who got married wearing face masks because of the pandemic. I was so surprised. I guess they weren't willing to wait.
ReplyDeleteCindy, I found beautiful face masks made of white lace specifically for weddings. I was going to include a picture in my article, but couldn't find a royalty-free image. The masks are just stunning. (I also found some fancy, outlandish ones meant for Kentucky Derby Day.)
DeleteAn excellent and timely blog, Donna. And I agree with Margaret, so much money is spent on weddings nowadays. Better to use those funds for other things--like a home, etc.
ReplyDeleteBut some girls dream of that big, fluffy dress and lots and lots of flowers. :)
DeleteWhat an interesting post, Donna. Thank you for doing the research about weddings and sharing it. And thank you for the book bargain!
ReplyDeleteThank you for stopping by, Magdalena!
DeleteYes. My son was planning a wedding in Hawaii where his bride lives/lived. They were married with just her family present in their backyard the evening before Mother's Day. We were able to watch on Zoom as Hawaii has very strict rules about tourists right now.
ReplyDeleteIt was very hard for the mama to not be at her son's wedding. I shed tears for days leading up to it.
Oh, Kimberly! I'm so sorry you couldn't attend your son's wedding in person. I understand your tears and I'm sending you virtual hugs.
DeleteSometimes I think people forget it's all about the promise and commitment-not the big occasion. If I were a young engaged couple now, I'd get married in a private ceremony with only family and then have the party next year.
ReplyDeleteThank you for stopping by, Lyn.
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