I hear it all the time…negative comments about the younger
generations.
“These kids today don’t know the meaning of work.”“These kids today are entitled.”
“These kids today have terrible values.”
“These kids today are…. Fill in the blanks.”
I disagree. Totally. Absolutely. Emphatically.
I am blessed to have the opportunity to teach MANY young
adults in my college classes. I hear their strengths and their struggles. I see
their hope for the future, and sometimes (sadly) their disillusionment.
The world they have experienced so far is different than
ours. They were babies when 911
occurred. Our country has been at war their entire lives. Almost half of all
marriages end in divorce today. Church attendance is now estimated at 31
percent, down from 75 per cent in the 1950’s. Lots of changes.
But also, the world has made major medical progress. Technology has boomed. Travel has grown exponentially.
It is true that our youth perceive things differently than
prior generations. How do I see them?
They are brave.
Open minded and accepting.
Active learners with avid curiosity.
Kind, compassionate and committed.
Aware and alarmed about the state of our planet.
They care.
The youth today are listening to each other, attempting to
grasp the differences they see. This includes economics, class, race,
gender. Most are non-judgmental and
supportive of each other.
They embrace education with a great willingness to learn.
They seek relevancy, communication, and information to help them use their
intelligence and skills in the world.
My students are far from entitled. They work hard, and
appreciate much. Most work at least part
time while being a student. Some work
full time and some also care for siblings, grandparents, or other family
members.
Many are involved in community service, whether at school,
in projects to help the needy, or through church, fund raising groups for
ecological causes or medical research.
They are awesome and inspiring.
Yes, they are on their phones too much. Yes, they dress and march to their own
drum. Good for them.
I am actually hopeful and relieved that they question the
status of their world, of the family, of society. I am grateful that they
tackle new things (like technology) with ease and confidence. I am confident that they will lead us all to
change. And I think we need it.
I love to talk to my students about books. Many are avid readers (often ebooks) or audio
book listeners. And many love romance,
especially if the characters are real and questioning and dealing with real
life issues that they can relate to.
Some like books much spicier than I write, to tell the truth.
Sometimes they are cynical about the idea of “happily ever
after” because of the things they have seen in their lives. But they admit that
they yearn for it, hope for it, and love to think about the possibilities.
But they read. And
they think. Our next generation of
readers is alive and well. It's exciting to embrace them!
I think we all benefit when we take the time to listen to
them, to learn about what’s important to them, as we embrace the future
together.
How about the young people in your life? What strengths do you see? I’d love to hear!
Christine Bush is a USA Today Bestselling author of romance, romantic
mystery, and suspense. She can be found
living in the Lehigh Valley in Pennsylvania with her husband and 2 lazy cats,
and spending time with her 13 grandchildren.
When she’s not writing, she’s teaching Psychology at a local college,
and working with clients in her private practice as a Marriage and Family
Therapist. She loves to hear from readers and writers!
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What a great, uplifting post. Thank you, Christine!
ReplyDeleteThanks!
DeleteSo well-said, Christine. Bravo on a great post. And I think young people are exceptional, as evidenced by the attendance and participation in my church.
ReplyDeleteSo glad to hear that!
DeleteI have a 24 year old and he really cares about the planet. He is conscious about the products he uses and who he buys them from.
ReplyDeleteSounds like a great young man!
DeleteThank you for this wonderful post, Christine!
ReplyDeleteI love teaching in high school and helping the young people.
ReplyDeleteI'll bet you know exactly what I mean!
DeleteI do think I grew up in a simpler time, and kids have a lot more stuff to think about because the world is much smaller in many ways. We can easily communicate with someone across the globe because of the internet. I think a lot of young people get a bad rap. Just like every generation there are some good and some bad.
ReplyDeleteIt truly is a world with different challenges than we had!
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