Welcome to
Sweet Romance Reads! I’m glad you’re here. I’ve been thinking about spring.
Wishing for spring. We experienced it briefly and it seemed like it was the
real thing. I made plans to have landscaping done, including transplanting some
existing shrubs and planting a new tree even though people warned us winter
wasn’t finished with us yet. And they were right. Here in Virginia it’s very
cold (as I write this on Thursday the 16th). To the north, snow fell
this week. For some, it was a bunch of snow. And yet, March 21st is
only a few days away. Spring will officially arrive and soon the warmer temps
will be here to stay – for a while at least – and then it will be hot and humid
and we’ll be wishing for autumn. It’s just a truth of life and how we are as
people. We tend to want what we don’t have. Somehow our futures seem so much
more promising and interesting than our reality such that we wish away our
present. Instead of living in the NOW, we dream of the future. I’m guilty of
that and I know many other people who are. Are you?
We save for a
future vacation while we rush through each ordinary day. We are anxious for our
infants to teeth or crawl or walk because others of the same age already are. We
struggle through the present working for the future and one day we realize the
future has arrived and we don’t know how to embrace it and enjoy it. We look
back and wonder why we didn’t see the beauty in the present, in the memories we
were crafting at the time, during those ordinary days.
In my most
recent release, THE HAPPINESS IN BETWEEN, Sandra Lovett wanted happiness and it
eluded her. If she’d found the happiness in each day, perhaps her future would’ve
been better sooner. In BEACH RENTAL, my debut novel, Juli lived very much in
the now and considered self-reliance to be the most important ideal. Happiness
was something she didn’t expect and it didn’t figure into her life, yet when
she began to hope for the future, and took steps toward making a more promising
future happen, she found joy, unexpected and overflowing.
What does all
that mean? I don’t know. Maybe it means that the tree the landscapers just
planted for me and the bushes they transplanted, should’ve been allowed to wait
until the weather was more favorable to their rooting and future survival? Perhaps.
Only time will tell. If they fail to thrive I’ll be sad, but I’ll try again and
hope to get it right next time. Because, as humans, we may be impatient, but we’re
also persistent. It’s who we are. Somewhere along the way we need to be sure to
appreciate and embrace the present because, like spring, the future will arrive
all on its own and become reality, and we need to understand how to live in it.
Please visit
me over at www.GraceGreene.com I write sweet romance and women’s fiction. My
Emerald Isle, NC books are romance and sweet inspiration (BEACH RENTAL and
BEACH WINDS) and my Virginia Country Roads novels (CUB CREEK, LEAVING CUB
CREEK, KINCAID’S HOPE, A STRANGER IN WYNNEDOWER) feature more mystery and
suspense, as do THE HAPPINESS IN BETWEEN, my most recent release, and THE
MEMORY OF BUTTERFLIES, currently available on preorder and due to be released on September
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Happy Spring! I'm glad it's coming whether we're ready or not!
Happy Spring to you, too, Grace!
ReplyDeleteAnd to you, Josie!
DeleteGrace, thank you for this beautiful message. My word for this year is mindfulness, for the very reasons you've shared.
ReplyDeleteMindfulness is so important. In fact, I can see how mindfulness (with a minimalist approach to disregarding and discarding the monkey-mind stuff) is critical to a clear head. You can't really live in the day and the moment unless you can trim away all of the other stuff competing for attention.
DeleteThank you for the reminder to live in the moment!
ReplyDeleteWe live in a world that values multi-tasking so it's easy to lose focus.
DeleteGrace, happy spring. Thanks for the reminder to enjoy what we have now.
ReplyDeleteIt's good to slow down and enjoy life sometimes :-)
DeleteLovely post Grace. Yes, it is so important to slow down and savour the moments in life. I have a 4 month at home and my writing has slowed right down, but that's okay. shes only so little for such a short amount of time.
ReplyDeleteLiving in the moment makes you focus on what is important--the here and now. Not always easy to do though.
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