It is breathtaking.
It is also overwhelming.And pretty much worthless to me today.
Do you have stuff like this?
Extra sets of lovely dishes. So
you could feed an intimate dinner for 36? Hmmm. I’m not doing that
anymore. And if I HAD to, I’d use the
absolute best paper plates, probably.
I saved them, of course, for my kids. Then I tried to give them away. They were rejected like a case of poison
ivy.
“No thanks,” they said.
“They take up too much room.” How did they get so smart so young?
Then there’s grandmothers hutch (which held the dishes).
“Not our style, thanks but no thanks.” Polite, and definite.
Downsizing is a challenge when you have a lot of “stuff”. We sold some, but not much.
It’s emotionally hard
to declutter. There are memories
galore. I solve this by taking pictures of my
precious, memorable, loved, (and pretty much worthless) stuff, and store it in
the “cloud” (which is like having unlimited closet space, PLUS, you don’t have
to dust it!)
And once I got started, it got easier. I found out there are
lots of people who NEED a lot of the extras that I have been storing. It’s
given me a lot of joy to donate furniture, nick –knacks, and LOTS of books,
I've donated LOTS clothing for folks
who appreciate these things, or to make money for a worthwhile cause.
I’m not done, but I’m on my way. And it’s actually starting to feel good. How
about you? What about your “stuff?” I’d love to hear!
Christine Bush is a USA Today Bestselling author of romance, romantic
mystery, and suspense. She can be found
living in the Lehigh Valley in Pennsylvania with her husband and 2 lazy cats,
and spending time with her 13 grandchildren.
When she’s not writing, she’s teaching Psychology at a local college,
and working with clients in her private practice as a Marriage and Family
Therapist. She loves to hear from readers and writers!
Check out her story of romantic suspense, "Almost Anonymous". When life takes a treacherous turn, Cassandra has to do the impossible to begin again. And it takes some very unusual friends to find her way to a newer, safer life!






















