Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Monday, June 14, 2021

Family Dynamics and Storytelling by Merrillee Whren


 Families can be shelters from the storm, or families can be the storm themselves. When I write a book, I love to explore family dynamics. Birth order, number of siblings and their ages, extended family, occupations of parents, divorce, and single parenthood are just a few of the things that make up family dynamics. I especially love to put kids in my stories. 

Falling in love can sometimes bring trouble if either person comes from a family that is broken. Someone who comes from a loving and secure family situation may not understand the person who comes from a family where love doesn't abound. Parents who lead a troubled life influence the lives of their children. Those children may not see falling in love as a positive thing. They may be reluctant to enter into a romantic relationship because they fear repeating the unhappiness of their parents. 

My upcoming release, MIRACLE BABY, features a hero who comes from a very broken family and a heroine who comes from a large, boisterous, loving family. The book releases on June 24. Today is the last day to get the preorder for 99 cents. 

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What aspect of family dynamics do you think most influences how a person views life?

Merrillee Whren is the winner of the 2003 Golden Heart Award presented by Romance Writers of American. She is married to her own personal hero, her husband of forty-plus years, and has two grown daughters. Connect with her on her Facebook page and sign up for her newsletter.
 
Merrillee Whren is the winner of the 2003 Golden Heart Award presented by Romance Writers of American. She is married to her own personal hero, her husband of forty-plus years, and has two grown daughters. Connect with her on her Facebook page and sign up for her newsletter.



Monday, October 14, 2019

Favorite Memories by Merrillee Whren


Do you ever wonder what it would be like to remember everything you've ever said or done? Wow! I suppose somewhere in ours brains all those memories might be lurking, but we can't bring them to the surface. When I decided to pick this topic, I realized I have a hard time picking favorites. When I'm asked about my favorite food, I can think of a half a dozen things I love to eat. Same thing with books and movies. There are so many to choose from. So how can I pick favorite memories. I can't. So I'll just share a few.

 Of course, my wedding day is a favorite memory. Here I am with my mom. She walked me down the aisle because my dad had passed away several years before. And sadly my mom passed away seven years later, so I love to remember her.

Christmases with the family. They are such wonderful memories.

And my granddaughters. Those memories are precious.

I could share pages and pages of memories, and I love to look through the photo albums or the photos on my computer and remember the things I've done and seen. When I write a book, I give my characters memories, some good, some bad. Always these memories shape my characters in some way just the same as our memories and experiences shape us.

What are some of your favorite memories?

Merrillee Whren is the winner of the 2003 Golden Heart Award presented by Romance Writers of American. She is married to her own personal hero, her husband of forty-plus years, and has two grown daughters. Connect with her on her Facebook page and sign up for her newsletter.

Monday, August 26, 2019

Singing Praises, not quite as planned By Susan Aylworth

Our daughter, Rebecca, loves a challenge almost as much as she loves to sing. Becca and her eldest son, Caleb, signed up some months ago with a wonderful group that provided both challenge and the chance to sing; it also set them up for an amazing opportunity. In becoming part of the Millennial Choirs and Orchestra (MCO), they looked forward to several important concerts, their summer season culminating in a highlight performance in Carnegie Hall.

We heard their performance in Abravanel Hall in Salt Lake City. Titled "Nearer, my God, to Thee," the concert began with an astonishing and deeply moving arrangement of "A Mighty Fortress" and consisted mostly of heart-felt sacred music. Since the New York City performance was scheduled for mid-July, they also offered a patriotic segment.

Five groups of choirs and orchestras from around the southwest studied the same music, preparing to divide into three casts, each of which would have one big night on the stage in the renowned Stern Concert Hall inside Carnegie. Becca and Caleb were in the "blue" cast, scheduled for Saturday evening, July 13.
With a once-in-a-lifetime experience ahead of them, and a world-famous, sold-out concert venue awaiting, Becca and Caleb endured an intense rehearsal schedule, costume fittings, and all the expected preparation.

That wasn't all. The rest of the family wanted to see them in concert, and since they were going to be in Manhattan, they certainly wanted to take a few bites of all the Big Apple had to offer. Months of work, planning, sacrifice and saving led up to the big day.

There they were, rehearsing on the concert stage just hours before the performance, when the lights went out. At first, they went right on. Accustomed to having the lighting technicians at work while they were, they continued rehearsal, using only the battery-operated lights on the orchestra's music stands. When the blackout did not ease, the group became restless. This wasn't just normal light-testing, was it?

Soon the Hall officials came in to report that something had happened, blacking out all of central Manhattan. Yes, their scheduled performance was on that night, the night the lights went out throughout the central city on the exact anniversary of the 1977 Manhattan blackout. July 13 also came during Manhattanhenge, the one time per year when the setting sun lines up with the downtown streets, making the sunset visible through the urban canyons.

For a short time, the musicians continued to rehearse, hoping and praying that the power would come back in time for their concert as scheduled. The Hall's staff knew when their fail-safe point occurred, the hour when it would be too late to load in an audience even if the power returned. When that time arrived, they came in to deliver the bad news: For the first time in its history, Carnegie Hall canceled a performance due to technical problems.

Imagine the heartbreak. This concert had been the focus of months of effort and sacrifice, not just for hundreds of musicians, but for thousands of their family and friends, many of whom had traveled to NYC to enjoy the experience with loved ones. Tangible disappointment chased them all.

As they exited the hall, one woman announced, "I came here to sing. Let's sing." Most of the orchestra members could not participate, given the difficulty of setting up instruments on 57th Street, but the singers quickly organized and an impromptu concert began. Their director came up with a makeshift podium and began leading.

As the sun set between the skyscrapers of Manhattan, the Millennial Choirs sang praises to God. Though they missed their opportunity to perform to the 2,800+ people who would have heard them inside the hall, they ended up singing to hundreds on the streets of Manhattan, many of whom would not have chosen to hear them on the stage. Several million have now heard their performances recorded on YouTube. (See #MCOINNYC I Stand All Amazed Carnegie Hall - NYC Power Outage; I Believe in Christ - MCO Outside Carnegie Hall, and others.)

The Millennial Choirs went to New York to sing praises in a famous hall, and ended up singing to the world.

Susan Aylworth is the author of 18 published novels. Her latest is SUNNY'S SUMMER, a sweet romance set in the Sierra foothills near her northern California home in the aftermath of the devastating #CampFire, also the second book in the "Seasons of Destiny" series. She is preparing to release AMBER IN AUTUMN, book 3; book 1, PARIS IN THE SPRINGTIME, is also available. Susan lives with her husband of 49 years, Roger. She loves to hear from readers. Find her at www.susanaylworth.com, @SusanAylworth, susan.aylworth.author@gmail.com, or facebook.com/Susan.Aylworth.Author. Also on Pinterest and Instagram.

Friday, December 9, 2016

Heroes of the Hearth.... Foster Parenting by Christine Bush



I had the awesome opportunity to meet the mother of one of my college students yesterday.  She wears a lot of hats. One of the most amazing is “foster parent”.  She and her husband have fostered for almost 30 years.  Her family includes children of all ages, all races, and some special needs.  I am so grateful to get to know her loving heart, and her mission.
Probably we all agree that all children deserve the best.  We also probably all know that some are born into circumstances FAR less than that.  And many of us are busy raising our own offspring, and can’t imagine opening our arms, our hearts, our homes to the children who are in dire circumstances.  We aren’t all called to do that.  And that’s ok.
 But I think it’s vitally important to acknowledge and celebrate those who are, and to help where we can.  At several churches and organizations, I’ve been touched with the programs that spring up to gather Christmas gifts and supportive activities for families like this. 

We romance writers and readers focus on love, so it’s worth taking a minute to consider the kind of parent love it takes to foster.  There are  many challenges, so many ups and downs, hopes fulfilled and disappointments swallowed.  It is tough. And day after day, the love goes on.  I am so touched by this.
Some fostering is short term, emergency care, and children eventually go to live with relatives, or are reunited with parents.  Some lead to adoption.  Some children move from home to home to home within state systems that seem to have a lot of “cracks” that they can fall through.  Systems vary state by state, and some desperately need change to  protect the welfare of the children they serve, to make sure the good of the child always comes before bureaucracy, politics and paperwork.
                             
My dear nephew and his wonderful wife are foster parents  in Nevada.  Marc is a successful actor/singer in the Las Vegas entertainment world, most recently starring as Sam Phillips in “Million Dollar Quartet” at Harrah’s.  Jen is an amazing teacher.  Busy lives.  But the hub of their world is their parenthood, and the wonderful child they are fostering and hoping to adopt. It’s far from an easy journey, and it takes a lot of commitment, perseverance, and love.
Marc and Jen clearly see the challenges fostering parents face, and are involved in a very worthwhile organization dedicated to support and assist in the mission of being foster parents, called “Foster Change.”

I’m very proud that Marc is appearing on December 18th in a benefit fund raiser for the organization, called “Christmas Crooner” to raise awareness (plus money!) for the cause.  If you’re in the Vegas area you can check it out at www.ChristmasCrooner.com.  Really cool.  100% of the profits will go to Foster Change.  But some of us (including me) live far and can’t attend.  So we’re donating from afar at www.crowdrise.com/christmascrooner. Feel free to join in if you’re so inclined.

And if you have foster parents in your world, let’s let them know how much their dedication is worth.  They change lives with their love.  Each and every day. 
I have a feeling that we romance lovers, who love "happily every afters", can particularly understand how important that is.  I want to sincerely thank those wonderful, loving folks who foster parent.   Do we have any foster parents here? I’d love to hear your story.
Christine Bush is the award winning author of many books and novellas of sweet romance and light mystery. She also writes Middle Grade Fiction. When she isn’t writing, she can be found working with clients as a Marriage and Family Therapist in private practice, or teaching Psychology at a local college.  She lives with her family and two crazy cats in northeastern Pennsylvania, and loves to hear from readers and aspiring writers.
Her  book “Cindy’s Prince”  (about an awesome woman who is raising her niece and nephew) can be found at  http://www.amazon.com/Cindys-Prince-Christine-Bush-ebook/dp/B00IFSRVJ2/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1393781746&sr=1-1&keywords=christine+bush+cindy%27s+prince

www.ChristineBush.com



               

 

Thursday, May 19, 2016

Summer Plans



Do you have a trip planned for this summer? Memorial Day weekend is just ahead. My wedding anniversary is coming up in June. Father’s Day is shortly thereafter. Then the Fourth of July… Official holidays, personal celebrations, or a getaway – maybe you have a special go-to place like a mountain cabin or a beach house, or do you like to see new places and fresh faces when you get away? 


My husband and I have been talking about getting away. Several times over the past year we’ve discussed and planned, but stopped short of actually booking a trip. Life, I guess. Family obligations that can’t be accounted for within a schedule like my mom in a memory care unit, or job obligations, or – you name it – there’s always something ready to hold you back from taking off on adventure. 

We planned to take a trip to the UK in May but didn’t go through with it. We’ve looked at cruises, not really caring where it sails, but only wanting to be on the ship and watch the ocean go by. We’ve considered short, more local trips to the shore or to the mountains, but each time I pull my Go-For-It finger back from the keyboard. Not yet. 


So when? Will it be when this current book project is finished? There’ll be another to write. As for family – there’s no guarantee of health and stability on any given day or week regardless of age or condition, so timing may be a gamble, but waiting is a sure way to never get away. Or do you just enjoy the planning more than the actual trip? Many do.
What holds you back? Whether it’s from traveling or doing something else you’ve dreamed of? What keeps you anchored in the planning stage, never to take off and do it? Where would you go if you had the chance to travel without restriction?



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Grace Greene writes women's fiction and contemporary romance with suspense. A Virginia native, Grace has family ties to North Carolina. She writes books set in both locations.
The Emerald Isle books, BEACH RENTAL and BEACH WINDS, are set in North Carolina where "It's always a good time for a love story and a trip to the beach."
Or travel down Virginia Country Roads in KINCAID'S HOPE, A STRANGER IN WYNNEDOWER, and CUB CREEK and "Take a trip to love, mystery and suspense." Her newest release, LEAVING CUB CREEK, is the sequel to CUB CREEK.
BEACH RENTAL, her debut novel, won the Booksellers Best contest in both the Traditional and Best First Book categories. BEACH RENTAL and BEACH WINDS were each awarded 4.5 stars, Top Pick by RT Book Reviews magazine. KINCAID'S HOPE received a 4 star review from that same magazine.

 
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