
On the other hand, we can choose to practice compassion,
kindness, humility, peace. Practice really does make perfect, and the more we
practice these softer, gentler qualities, the more we can perfect them in
ourselves.
This is not suggesting that we should never experience fear
or doubt or frustration. All of us are filled with human foibles. However,
being conscious of our habits, both internal and external, is a good thing.
Where do you place your attention, and your intention? Are you cultivating
habits and practices that help you, or hurt you? If we remember that we become
what we practice, then we might start nurturing better habits. It all begins
with awareness.
It's okay to start small. As for myself, I have begun practicing the art of smiling. I offer one to grocery store clerks, neighbors, even strangers I meet. I'm usually given one in return, and it feels pretty good. What new habit will you cultivate?
It's okay to start small. As for myself, I have begun practicing the art of smiling. I offer one to grocery store clerks, neighbors, even strangers I meet. I'm usually given one in return, and it feels pretty good. What new habit will you cultivate?
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USA Today Bestselling Author Donna Fasano has written over
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Great advice, Donna!
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DeleteExcellent blog, Donna – and an excellent book, too.
ReplyDeleteThank you very much, Gerry! :)
DeleteWonderful advice. I've been practicing to smile at each person I have eye contact with, and I can't remember anyone who hasn't smiled back. So it really does work.
ReplyDeleteI think a smile is a universal language, don't you? :) Thank you for stopping by.
DeleteLovely advice. . .and so true!
ReplyDeleteI had a chance to read your book. Such a heart-warming story.
Thank you for the compliment. I really appreciate it! :)
DeleteNice blog post, Donna, and very good words of wisdom!
ReplyDeleteI love that you are practicing smiling - it's amazing at just how one kind intention can turn someone's entire day around. I'm trying to work on patience - especially when it comes to my kids. I find I spend so much time being "busy", that I don't focus near enough on what is truly important, namely my family.
Sending lots of **smiles** your way!
Patience is a wonderful virtue to practice! Blessings!
DeleteI'm aware that I am a work in progress. Smiling is a good start. I will work on that. :)
ReplyDeleteLinda, thank you for stopping by. I, too, am a work in progress....and, oh, the possibilities! :)
DeleteGreat blog Donna, You aren't a mind reader are you? as your blog touches home with me. I am trying to be less stressed and you are helping by providing fabulous books for me to read.
ReplyDeleteAw, Susan, thank you so much! :)
DeleteGreat reminder, Donna!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Melinda. :)
DeleteWhat a wonderful post, Donna. The world would be a better place if everyone read this and then tried harder to do all of this.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Roxanne. I agree with you...the world would be pretty perfect if everyone would be the change they'd like to see. (Yeah, I stole that from Gandhi.) :)
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ReplyDeleteI need to send that smile more often! Sometimes I allow all the stuff going on in my head to miss the beautiful things around me :) Great advice Donna!
ReplyDeleteGreat post Donna. As part of my NY resolutions, hen things don't go the right way, I tell myself: "So what it's not the end of the world."
ReplyDeleteI have always been a smiler, but I took it for granted until we lived overseas. Even when your ability to communicate is seriously hampered, you can always smile. Now I realize how important my smiles and the smiles of others have always been to me. My 5-year-old daughter recently told me she did have any talents. I told her that God had given her a beautiful smile and that she could always use that to cheer others up. She was relieved, and I relearned the lesson while teaching it!
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing. A smile goes a long way.
ReplyDeleteSuch wonderful advice, Donna! Thank you. You made me smile just reading it. Now, I intend to take that smile and share it with someone else. :)
ReplyDeleteFabulous post, Donna! I love the act of smiling at strangers - and it most often results in them smiling, too. My "one thing" I'm intentionally focusing on this year is gratitude... counting the blessings in all things and feeling true thankfulness each day.
ReplyDeleteQuiet of Prayer is an excellent book. I've reread and suggested it to others, and I hope Donna writes more like it. Also, like Shanna, I think focusing on blessings is also huge with me.
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