I have a sister who’s dear to me. We’ve been through a lot
together. In an ironic and poignant way, ten years ago this summer we both
found ourselves single again after two relatively long marriages. While romance
novels are about promise and “happily ever after,” we learned firsthand that
sometimes anticipated happy endings can
have unexpected outcomes. And yet, we each went on to build stronger futures
with wonderful new partners we cherish. It’s been like a dream come true. Hope
and faith renewed. Hooray – for finding love the second time around!
As my sister and I struggled along, managing careers and
families, we couldn’t help but wonder if we’d ever spot a rainbow beyond that
stormy horizon. To maintain positive outlooks, we each did two things. One, we wore
pedometers to chart our progress in moving forward. Because, when you’re counting
steps, you know you’re forging ahead. And two, we both burned happy lights. Those glorious, some might
say frivolous, things people string outside their homes during the holidays.
My sister had them everywhere… in her house and adorning her
lawn, while I contented myself with a vivid display, draped from my deck. They
reminded me that life draws us outside of ourselves, and we gain energy by celebrating light: all that’s good in the world, things that bring us happiness
and peace. The cool part is I discovered happy lights are contagious. Soon,
they began appearing on other decks nearby, until much of the neighborhood
bloomed with light.
I still love my happy lights, and enjoy their bright
twinkles to this day. Though I moved, I carried the concept of happy lights
with me, and hubby is fully on board. He even put up the set in the picture.
They lend a festive air to our dining room, and complement the candlelight. Each
time we plug them in, they make us smile.
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How about you? Do you hang happy lights indoors, or outside
your home? Are there other decorative items you use that brighten your spirits?
Comment here and/or share a picture on our Facebook page. J
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Ginny Baird loves her happy lights and uses them year-round,
making every day feel like a holiday in her home. Help her celebrate Christmas
in July by checking out her discounted boxed set: The Holiday Brides Collection
(Books 1 – 4), now on sale at Amazon
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Ginny, I love the idea of happy lights but I love more the close relationship you have with your sister. I only have a brother and he is so very dear to me. I can tell your sister is the same for you. What a blessing!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Angela! Yes, siblings are very special and can lend us lots of support. It's great to have family around -- in hard times, and in good! :)
DeleteI love this idea, and should use them more. My sis used them outdoors year-round and it makes it so magical.
ReplyDeleteI agree! Go ahead and put yours out, Aileen. :)
DeleteI've been meaning to put lights on my deck for some time. Thank you for the reminder. They are so comforting on warm summer nights.
ReplyDeleteI love these year-round, and now can't imagine my deck without them! It's especially nice to turn off the other outdoor lights, and sit with just a glass of wine and your special someone. Very romantic. <3
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